Behind the Clothes

Miracle Mornings (Without the Rules)

Most women don’t need a better morning routine. We need to hear that mornings are meant to be enjoyable and easy. Somewhere along the way, mornings became another thing to “get right.” The perfect ...

You’re Invited (Even If You Don’t Come)

Early in my career, I used to tell my sales teams something simple: If you meet someone and tell them about a great party—the food, the place, the music—but forget to tell them they’re invited… you...

When Did I Become Invisible… and Why Does Part of Me Feel Relief?

I don’t know exactly when it happened. There wasn’t a single moment you could point to. Just one day, I realized… I move through the world differently now. And if I’m honest, part of me is relieved...

Does Self-Doubt Ever Really End?

At What Age Do We Stop Comparing Ourselves? When I was younger, I looked at older women and truly believed they had it all figured out. I thought the worrying had stopped. That the self-doubt was ...

For Every Woman Who’s Ever Felt Unseen

Have You Ever Had a Season When You Didn’t Feel Seen? When I opened cYou, many women assumed the name was a play on my own—because my name is spelled Cyndi.But the truth is, it came from a much dee...

Feeling Invisible? 9 Style Shifts Women Over 50 Swear By to Feel Seen Again

Feeling Invisible? ✨ 9 Style Shifts Women Over 50 Use to Feel Instantly Elevated The Truth No One Talks About My mom once told me, “As you age, you become invisible.” At the time, I brushed it off....

Holiday Traditions and Style Inspiration: Creating Days to Remember

When Holiday Traditions Change: Creating Days to Remember No one tells you how quiet the holidays become when your parents are gone and your children are grown. There’s a moment — and maybe you’re ...